Universal challenges of single independent women :
Loneliness and not creating new list of friends and relying on old contacts, lost families and childhood friends..
Financially or physically independent but emotionally dependent on others for validation
Masking your fears by choosing to be busy
Attract abusive or unavailable partners for control or fear of losing control
Distract with some form of addiction — substance or people or objects or animals
Expecting one unicorn partner who is Mr/Ms Everything
Lack of influencing and negotiation skills. So use submissiveness or obedience or kindness or extreme independence or being clingy to get what they want.
Instead :
World is your oyster.. build connections and meaningful relationships. Not networking exchanging cards.
Don’t expect unicorn partners who can be everything for you all the time 
Take responsibility by choice and not as a reaction
Be OK with rejection and disagreements
Heal your self if you experienced hardships or traumatic experiences
Take charge of your life with consistent conscious choice and continuous self enquiry
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