Hi There,
Mind needs a point of focus 
Who do you not want to be?
If you do not want to be mean, you will surround yourself with mean people.
If you do not want to be rejected, you will surround yourself with rejection.
If you do not want to be nasty, you will surround yourself with nastiness.
If you do not want to be unfair, you will surround yourself with unfairness.
If you do not want to be poor, you will find yourself in lack and scarcity.
Who you do not want to be was your strength, protection and identity but is now your block.
Step out of it.
You get what you focus.. shift your mind to focus on who you want to be instead…
Love
Manna 