How did we get this so wrong?
When did we decide that it’s the other person who can make you happy?
And when did we start believing that life is a linear path of all good things and bad things happen to bad people?
Can we instead replace :
Impulsiveness with patience
Stubbornness with will power
Compassion with discretion
Fear with courage
Weakness with strength
Insecurity with self sufficiency
Expectations with self belief
Judgements with observation
Blaming with awareness
Slow and steady wins the race too.. it does not have to be always quick and instant..
Do not fall into everything that your mind wants you to see, hear or speak..
One step at a time 
Love
Manna 