Becoming. Being. Unbecoming.
This is the quiet, powerful rhythm of life.
You become through social conditioning—absorbing the values, beliefs, and identities handed to you by family, culture, and survival.
You be those identities. You live them, act them out, often unaware that they were never truly yours.
You emulate, perform, and belong—until one day, something inside begins to question.
That’s when unbecoming begins.
Unbecoming is not breaking down.
It’s breaking free.
It’s the sacred unraveling of everything that is not truly you.
It’s the conscious release of past identities, old stories, and emotional residue that shaped a future you no longer consent to.
It’s not rebellion. It’s return.
To who you’ve always been beneath the layers.
Free from past memories.
Free from emotional echoes.
Free from futures scripted by outdated selves.
You begin to see clearly—not through the eyes of who you were or who you were told to be, but as you are, right here, now.
That’s unbecoming.
Love & Healing
Manna Abraham