Hi There,
6 reasons why you choose bad partners or stay in abusive relationships:
- Easy exit strategy: You can justify why you left them because you are afraid of leaving people behind because you don’t want to be rejected or abandoned 🚩
- Acute inferiority complex and low self-esteem 🚩
- Fear of responsibility/freedom: Believe that good relationships require hard work and you don’t like to work hard and take responsibility 🚩
- Fear of Failure: Obvious reasons to face the society/community and justify why that relationship didn’t work 🚩
- Identity of a Fixer: Choosing challenging partners with an idea to fix the partner because they believe they couldn’t fix their mother, father or siblings🚩
- Utopian idea of unconditional love and support: Extreme identification with unconditional love and subconscious pride in suffering/ being a victim🚩
Besides the above 6 reasons, another most common yet unspoken is emotional/financial dependency🚩
If you said “yes” to any of the above, the red flags are obvious and it’s time to heal yourself and strategise to move forward.
Some of these are emotional others just require strategy.
Do the work and trust your power of innate wisdom.
Not sure…. Let me show you how.
For your healing
Manna 🙏