The last few days have been really full-on with “nice to have” problems.
I successfully finished the 9 Hours FACE IT program, which saw real transformations and all resolved traumas that had been haunting them since childhood.
And interestingly, I realised feedback is very important to me.
To know, what I do is meaningful which changes and empowers lives.
Watch a testimonial HERE.
One part of me believed and I still believe, you know when you do a good job.
Perhaps this is true, perhaps it’s conditioning from my childhood when I was constantly told “you know you cooked a good meal” in silence around the table and empty plates at the end.
However, I realised it is important for me to see and listen to the feedback rather than feeling and understanding.
Why am I sharing this with you?
Quite often in relationships, we forget to take a moment to appreciate little gestures of courtesy. When you stop and think about it, there are so many.
Especially those close to us. It’s easy to take them for granted.
We believe they know how important they are to you.
Often we get caught up in our own lives and forget that they are also going through their own lives and perhaps that simple feedback or acknowledgment is the only sigh of relief for that day before they go to bed?
If you like to be understood, time to realise your partner, colleague or friend may want to be seen, heard or touched.
Take a moment now and make the decision to acknowledge others in the way they like to be acknowledged and not the way you like to.
The chances are they will start to do the same thing also.
Life is not just about you, and the world around you does not always think like you.
Make them feel special
P.S The next FACE IT starts 14 September for three Tuesdays 06 to 09 PM Adelaide Time. The intro is on Sep 7th,2021.