Are you ok to be an inconvenience?
I was talking to a young woman yesterday in her 20s..
Very bright, full of energy and loaded with life.
Her worry is not to be an inconvenience to others…. She comes from a lineage of women in her family who served, who are quiet and never questioned the status quo..
While growing up, she was constantly told not to be an inconvenience..
Another young man in his early thirties, over achiever and suffers from extensive overthinking and guilt.
He does what is required at work and after work he replays the whole day in his head and worries how he might have caused inconvenience to everyone around him.
Another woman in her 50s cannot function and live to her potential because her success is an inconvenience to people around her and she believes she is leaving them behind.
I remember as a child, how often I was told the Aesop’s fable “The Bundle of Sticks” and the moral is there is strength in Unity.
As a result, I put my dreams on hold for the family to rise.
But one day I had to decide to be an “inconvenience” to change my story and I was surprised to realise how that changed the story of other girls behind me and protected them from the shackles of tradition.
Times have changed and we are in a society where we can pursue what we want and still be together.
Mothers & Fathers, you must be coming from a generation who believed “children are to be seen but not heard”.
But that’s not true anymore. They are the future.
Give them the courage to be an inconvenience and find their own allies..
Let them fall, bruise and learn their own lessons..
And tell yourself too “it’s ok to be an inconvenience”
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