People are constantly searching for their purpose. Their why. But purpose doesn’t begin with why. It begins with what. Ask yourself this instead: What is the one thing I will continue to do, whether I am paid or not? Do you seek adventure even without money involved? Do you naturally explore ideas, systems, or patterns? Do you love understanding […]
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When Trying to Fit In Becomes the Trigger You often get triggered when you try to fit in. Not because you are fragile. Not because something is unresolved. But because fitting in asks you to move backward. We forget something essential. We are all on the same journey, but we are not moving at the
How to Find Your Purpose Without Forcing a Why A Lived Perspective on Alignment, Continuation, and Inner Clarity People are constantly searching for their purpose.Their why. I see this question come up again and again, especially among people who have already done a lot of inner work. Intelligent, self aware, deeply reflective people who
When Betrayal Refuses to Leave Betrayal has a way of lodging itself deep inside us. Not because we want to hold on to it, but because we do not know how to release it. Time passes. Life moves forward. Yet something remains unresolved. A tightness. A looping question. A sense that something was taken without
When Being Stuck Feels Complicated When you are stuck, it often feels complex. As if there are many layers to work through. Many things to understand, resolve, or heal before you can move. But when you look closely, there are really only two directions available. One is to turn toward the subconscious. To analyze it.
When Playing Small Is Really Avoiding Conflict When you play small or avoid conflict, it can feel like caution. Like patience. Like being considerate. Like waiting for the right moment. But often, beneath that restraint, something else is operating. A sense of limitation. A quiet belief that time, energy, love, or opportunity is
When Procrastination Is Not About Time Most people think procrastination is a time-management problem. It is not. It is a survival strategy. Procrastination often appears when the nervous system associates action with overwhelm. The task feels heavy, undefined, or too large to hold all at once. So the system waits. Not out of laziness,
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Nija Online Ashram last weekend was an inquiry – into consciousness, questioning, and the quiet mechanics of our inner world. Why do you ask Why? Not from curiosity alone, but from discomfort, uncertainty, habit, and the deeper need to understand our place in the world. people-pleasing fear of disappointing others lack of boundaries Consciousness is
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If you are a giver and lately you’ve been wondering if you might be too much of a giver, this is for you. A giver is someone who shows up, supports, and offers help even before being asked. You give generously, instinctively, and often quietly. But there’s a pattern I want to invite you to notice. Most
Thank you for being part of today’s Intentional Living session. What we did today was not theory. It was a reset. A return to the basics that actually hold life together. We spoke about time not as something to manage, but as something to respect. We looked at boundaries not as restrictions, but as the scales of justice that
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