Somewhere along the way, “rewiring the subconscious” became the holy grail. Regulate the nervous system. Revisit the trauma. Reprocess the story. Again. And again. And again. And now we have people in therapy for 5… 8… 12 years. Still triggered. Still circling the same patterns. Here’s what no one wants to say: You can’t heal […]
If you are a coach, healer, therapist, or someone deeply immersed in nervous system work, this might challenge you. The wellness industry sold you nervous system regulation. And don’t get me wrong – it’s powerful. It helps when emotions feel overwhelming. It brings you back to safety. It prevents spirals. It builds capacity. But here’s
You don’t have to be happy. Let me share why. Long ago, I read something that stayed with me. It said that the inner stillness you experience—both in good times and in turbulent times—is the presence of spirit… or God… or whatever name feels right to you. Not excitement. Not positivity. Stillness. Roy Masters, who
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Strong. Capable. Admired. That’s who the world sees when they look at you. Yet when you’re alone… Why do you feel reactive, stuck, or quietly exhausted? Why does a part of you feel like a victim despite everything you’ve achieved? Here’s the truth most high-functioning people never see: Your success or struggle is not controlled
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What if everything you call “relationship problems” isn’t about communication, compatibility, or chemistry at all? I joined Mike and Amy from the Thrive Again Relationship Podcast this week for an unfiltered conversation about what really creates stuckness, triggers, and intimacy blocks between partners who genuinely love each other. We covered: Trauma redefined – Not the big
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“Relationships Are Not Fixed. They Are Lived.” We came together to talk about relationships. But very quickly, it became clear that we were not discussing “others.” We were meeting ourselves. As stories were shared, a common truth surfaced. Relationships feel harder during times like Christmas not because something is wrong, but because expectations rise while
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Seeking the purpose of life is like wearing green-coloured glasses and designing your entire world to match the colour green. And one day, when you remove those glasses, you realise you spent your whole life perfecting the wrong colour, while the true colour was something else altogether. I was reflecting on this same question. Service.
You’re hitting your targets. You’re seen as “reliable.” But somehow, the opportunities keep going to someone else. In corporate environments, this is rarely about capability. It’s about something subtler running in the background: Saying yes when you want to say no, then resenting the workload Playing small in meetings, then wondering why you were overlooked
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